"He who has overcome his fears is truly free" - Aristotle
After encountering the same situation twice (in the lives of others) in one day, I feel compelled to shout the following from my virtual rooftop to the world.. Public opinion is a valid resource in that from public opinion you can glean a common understanding of how situations and actions are viewed. Essentially it often acts as a basic compass for action and opinion.
While all that is true, the biggest lesson that I've learned literally in my whole life is that in no way, shape, or form does this objectively define a situation or predict results. Albert Einstein said, "Imagination is the preview of life's coming attractions." I couldn't agree more. If you can imagine an outcome in your mind, you are up to half way (20%-50%) to creating and realizing it. I'm not telling you that you can literally do anything you can think of in the way you first imagine it, however I am saying that there is only one way to find out. If you've taken the time to imagine something that excites you, you OWE it to yourself and will be doing yourself an injustice not to pursue whatever it is. I know a lot of professors and potential teachers that think there are no teaching jobs, and I also know around 10 people that have walked into full-time employment after graduating. I know people that get intimidated by people in positions of power and never look to oppose them, and I know a few people (self included) that chose to outwork the competition and ended up beating the odds in a big way (guess who your favourite VPFA is). I know people who talk about the lack of employment in their area, and I also personally know almost 100 entrepreneurs who have CREATED their career as opposed to looking for it (self included). I know people that aspire to win a championship, and I know people who actually pursued championships in sport (self included). Could we have all failed? Absolutely. And many of us did along the way.. And then we learned, and then we adjusted, and then we succeeded.
I should note that I'm only including that I've jumped over these hurdles to humanize the experience. There is nothing special about me or anyone else who has attained success. The only reason we, and you have been successful (whether you realize it or not) is because of one word. Grit. Look it up.
All of the highest achievements in the lives of the most successful people we know have come through risk. In a coaching theory class I learned that the characters "危机" can be used to represent "risk" as well as "opportunity". Whether this is true or not I can confidently say that all opportunity comes with risk, since you can always unsuccessfully pursue an opportunity. I quote this all the time, "a lot of us are not all the way satisfied but are scared to lose security in what we do have". Moral of the story? To get to better circumstance you must be willing to embrace change and is of failure. The point is not to be scared of failure because that cognitive roadblock gives way to analysis-paralysis. It literally stops you from doing things. That's not to say embrace failure as a good think on par with success, it refers to the mindset that ever experience is either a success or an opportunity to grow. It's a mindset.
Let your fears motivate you.
#GROE - Growth Respect Opportunity & Excellence
Love,
Kyle Denzel Rose
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